How to show your love to your child?

Show and Tell in various forms is a popular feature that many preschool classes. When you watch the kids make their presentations you understand the popularity of the show-and-tell. The kids love to talk about their interests and passions but they love to share their interests and passions even more.

The kids are all about the show. We have to show and lead our children by the hand through each lesson - both large and small.

So, why do we so often think that enough just to say our children that we love them? Not quite. Love is the biggest show-and-tell of them all and you should make it part of your life every day.

The kids like we do, not what we say, and along the path we really want our kids just say the words: "I love you" to us as they rushed out the door? Do we desire them to show us in many ways?

This is why it is important to show your child that you love him.

Hugs and kisses are good show that you love them. So is tickled and games. My son and I have little time to sleep ritual that allows us to show our love for one another. We curled up to sleep stories and talk about the day. Then we came up with ridiculous ways to calculate how much we love each other, such as weight 12,567 lumps is one description recently. Then our butterfly kisses, Eskimo kisses, and eventually squish and kiss (the words of our code for hugs and kisses).

But this is not the only way that I show my love for my son.

When I was growing up I never doubted that my parents love me. They made it very clear that I and my brother is a top priority for them. Their professional and personal sacrifice is to give us time together as a family. My father trained; escorted my parents, voluntary, and the driver, and my parents attended every school function, plays, concerts, and games.

More than that though my parents took an interest in us as people and will play games or ride a bike. They'll just spend time with us doing the things we enjoy doing.

It's really not just about the time. However, both my parents are working and active in the community. When I was little my mother is the only working mother in the neighborhood.

This is a substance of priority. You know that your child is your priority, but what do you tell your child? If your actions repeatedly put something or someone else before your child then they will get the message loud and clear no matter what is in your heart.
Almost everyday my husband leaves for work before our son is awake, but when he comes home in the evening the first thing he a tickle and hug John. Sometimes John even makes his father chase him because he knows that his father will. John knows that he is a priority for his father and he trusts that love.

So how can you demonstrate your child he is a priority? How can you show your love for your child? Get some method every day to show as well as tell your child of your love. Some ways we do this in our home:

~ Skip dinner preparations and make a picnic together at the location of child's choice.
~ Turn off the TV and lay together on the floor and layout a train track, with new designs can actually be relaxing for the parent after a work all day.
~ This is one of John's favorites is going for a walk and just talk about whatever day comes up.
~ Setting down my own book to read John one of his.
~ Putting off kitchen cleanup to go outside and play something.

Notice what all these events have in frequent? They do not want money, just your time and attention. Definite they like that latest gadget and toy they see advertised on TV or Magazine, but they love you and long after that toy is abandoned in the back of their closet they will still choose to spend time with you.

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